{"id":253,"date":"2019-12-17T16:40:01","date_gmt":"2019-12-17T22:40:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/knowyouraudience.net\/?p=253"},"modified":"2019-12-17T16:40:50","modified_gmt":"2019-12-17T22:40:50","slug":"commitment-over-weight","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/knowyouraudience.net\/?p=253","title":{"rendered":"Commitment Over Weight"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Gerald is a happy physician.&nbsp;\nEven during tension and indecision, he looks happy, contented, and\nconfident.&nbsp; The problem?&nbsp; His weight.&nbsp;\nBy his own estimate, he is 100 pounds overweight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For years, Gerald was convinced that he would always be a\n300-pound man.&nbsp; \u201cIt runs in the\nfamily.&nbsp; My dad was overweight, my\ngrandfather was overweight, and I\u2019m overweight.&nbsp;\nThat\u2019s just the way it is and will be.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And then it happened.&nbsp;\nA little boy accompanied his mother in Gerald\u2019s clinic.&nbsp; Sitting in a chair beside his mother, the\n7-year-old boy, stood up, faced Gerald and said, \u201cYou are fat.&nbsp; You are really fat,\u201d and then sat down.&nbsp; His mother did not apologize or correct her\nson.&nbsp; Gerald realized that he spoke for\nhis mother as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He began dreaming about the experience and was upset that he\ncould not stop the recurring dream.&nbsp; The\nclinic staff confronted him.&nbsp; \u201cGerald,\nwhat\u2019s happened?&nbsp; You stopped smiling and\ngreeting us.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because of the drama with the boy, he consulted a therapist\nwho recommended a weight loss program.&nbsp;\nGerald enrolled and in six months lost 70 pounds.&nbsp; He now weighed 230 pounds.&nbsp; Convinced he could lose more, he continued\nwith the program for six more months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His smile, pleasant greeting, and positive outlook\nreturned.&nbsp; He asked his patient, the\nmother of the boy, to bring him to the next appointment.&nbsp; Without saying a word about his weight loss,\nGerald greeted little Jim, who said, \u201cBoy, you have changed.\u201d&nbsp; That\u2019s all Gerald needed for\nconfirmation.&nbsp; Little Jim may never know\nthe impact of his confrontation.&nbsp; Gerald\nwill never forget it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>To the reader:<\/strong>\n\nIf you are confronted with a personal issue that\ninhibits your growth and relationships, change your internal scripts.&nbsp; You have the power to change your mind, your\nattitude, your worldview, and your life.&nbsp;\nTake the brakes off your brain, challenge your long-standing assumptions\nabout yourself, and celebrate the \u201cYOU\u201d you want to be.&nbsp; You can do this\n\n\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gerald is a happy physician.&nbsp; Even during tension and indecision, he looks happy, contented, and confident.&nbsp; The problem?&nbsp; His weight.&nbsp; By his own estimate, he is 100 pounds overweight. 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