{"id":266,"date":"2019-12-21T17:29:53","date_gmt":"2019-12-21T23:29:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/knowyouraudience.net\/?p=266"},"modified":"2025-08-29T16:41:45","modified_gmt":"2025-08-29T21:41:45","slug":"resilience-agency","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/knowyouraudience.net\/?p=266","title":{"rendered":"Resilience & Agency"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

In a recent meeting discussing ACEs,\nAdverse Childhood Experiences, it was stated that Veterans believe resilience<\/strong>\nis a reactive term, and they prefer agency<\/strong> as values related, more\npowerful and action oriented.  <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bill Betzler responded with the\nfollowing: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who\nam I to argue with Veterans about agency vs resilience?  I think\nresilience is defined too narrowly.  I believe resilience is both\nan attitude & a spiritual practice.   In my life resilience started out as a means to survive.  I believe it was powered by something outside my self.  I think of it as a gift like the ability to throw a football 100 yards.  After the gift of life, my second gift was the iron resolve not to quit on myself melded with an unshakeable,\nunreasonable hope that tomorrow would be better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Since\nMike gave me that book on trauma 5 years ago; resilience has become\na daily practice.  It’s where I start from.  It’s what I share with my homeless clients at the Dignity Center.  I think that if you aren’t consciously aware of your mental toughness; every new life accident\nknocks you flat.  It takes more time and effort to get back up on\nyour feet.  On the other hand, if you can bring to mind how you responded to the last catastrophe in your life; this one will only\nbring you to your knees.  Responding to hard knocks “always” starts\nthe same way:  You gotta get to the place where you admit that you don’t know what to do next.  The next step is to talk to somebody who cares. I believe “all” our life accidents are spiritual problems in need of spiritual solutions.  There are no recovery recipes.  You know where you are.  You know where you want to be.  You have no idea how to get from A to B.  You find yourself admitting powerlessness and talking to others over and over again until the problem goes away. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the last 5 years resilience became a daily spiritual practice. It’s the starting point for any life challenge. \u00a0When Mike gave me that trauma book 5 years ago; I finally understood the rules of the game I’d been playing my whole life. \u00a0Nothing changed, but everything changed. \u00a0It was a transformative moment. \u00a0Now I knew why; finally, I could focus on what and how. \u00a0I had personal resiliency resources. \u00a0These were assets. I’d been accumulating and polishing them for 50+ years. \u00a0I could embrace my mental toughness, look back at how I’d survived and know that I had the right stuff to face whatever life dished in the future. \u00a0I think that’s agency. \u00a0I know its personal power. \u00a0For me now; resiliency is a key component of thriving and authenticity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\nbelieve capitalism can’t deal with resiliency because our culture is only\nabout constantly expanding material prosperity.  To admit that everybody needs to be resilient is to admit that failure, loss and suffering are as much a part of life as success, winning and good health.\n  Prosperity junkies can’t live with that kind of uncertainty: How\nmuch is your 5-year plan worth if you’re not in control of your\nnext breath or your next heartbeat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That’s all I got.  Thanks for reading.  Look forward to your feedback.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Author: Bill Betzler<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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